It’s been a long time since I’ve shared anything of substance. Not just on this site, but in general with people. Life has become so crazy that leaving my house doesn’t even sound appealing most days. I’m a bit out of touch with who I once was, matter of fact I think I lost her. […]
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Lots of people are out to kill your vibe. At times, we don’t really understand why but we do have tips to help you bounce off negativity like you are made of an invisible force field of sunshine and roses.
Well, at minimum we can help you keep your cool.
Wiser words were never spoken. My niece said this years ago when she was about 5 or 6 and I haven’t stopped saying it since. It’s the perfect saying, matter of fact, this article title has been in my drafts for about 2 months now. I just can’t want to finish writing it… until now. […]
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Being in a service focused industry, it’s hard to learn that “no” is an acceptable answer. When people don’t accept that answer, things can really start to get stressful. Am I right? Ask yourself, what do you owe this person? What are they asking for, why can’t you accommodate, and what can they do to […]
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I don’t know what’s going on this month! Maybe an eclipse or mercury retrograde because the universe was feeling cute and wanted me to revisit “the shit.” What is “the shit” you ask? Good question! It can be summarized by all the past trauma or insecurities one has in life. Life comes in waves, pulling […]
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Now is the time to shift from this crazy focus on success and materialism to move towards a stage of personal growth. This is about simplicity and staying true to who you really are. Be enough for yourself! My lesson on this front started a few months back, but with social distancing being forced upon […]
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It’s everywhere, it’s everything! Self absorbed superficial narcissists infect our lives and our society creates them. From youth we are exposed to a pop culture that values beauty over brains and money over morals. At what point do we stop ourselves and think, “What do I believe?” Not everyone you cross is a true narcissist, […]
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Energy, vibes, emotions… call them what you will but there’s definitely an art to not letting negative ones take away your inner peace. Like all things, it takes work and there will be times where you need to take a step back and consciously make an effort to “not engage.” Some situations will force you […]
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Here at ViBE OwL we believe that toxic people don’t actually want to be toxic at their core, its just the only way they know how to be sometimes. The first mistake when dealing with toxic people is allowing their energy to affect you. Did someone just make you mad? Brush it off! The more […]
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For most people, “adulting” can drain your energy and kill your vibe. What is adulting? In reality, its just making sure you are taking care of your obligations and responsibilities. If you have kids, then they are generally happy and safe within your control. If you have a job, you are going to work and […]
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